I was a boy tranformed to a man

 Hello Everyone, 

I was a boy, I have been recently transformed into a man where contributing is prefered over acquiring.  Teenagers calls me "uncle" and yes I have to accept it. I have now responsibility to earn money for my family. I have to listen to the rudeness of the people without my fault. I must look strong but decent too. I can't cry like before. I can't be mad or rude. I need to first think before I speak. Being a man family comes first before your career. I can't play with school going children, because their fathers are now of my age. Those girls walking on the streets are not meant to stare or flirt. They will never like it.

Evening is the time I have to be at home instead of being with friends. Novels have been replaced with Office files. Outlook is the mostly used software instead of  online games or online chat softwares. Being a man I think before eating as now I am overweighing. I prefer taking home made food instead of junk food. Late night sleep is for boys, I prefer waking up early morning to get ready for office. My words are very specific during phone calls unlike the way I do during my college days. Being at home makes me happy instead of outing. I don't ride my vehicle too fast as I know impressing the crowd on road is far better than relaxing your family while you returned back safely at home.

Being a man I understood my worth and my existence. Parents are listening me thoughtfully, infact elders are taking grimly unlike before. I don't prefer bothering someone rather I care for others. I don't shout back, abuse for someone's rude behavious. Sometimes I cope up with situation and try to handle it with smile. I invite and offer hospitality to guests at home  instead of  moving away from them.

Please welcome me, I was a boy few years ago, recently transformed to a man. (Dedicated to my age group)

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